Every relationship is different. Some are more adventurous than others. That’s okay. Maybe you are interested in spicing things up a bit but you aren’t quite sure how to introduce a sex toy into your relationship. It can be a scary idea, but if you go into it with the right mindset and focus on a strong relationship, you too can turn your bedroom into a playland! Here are a few tips on how to get started:
Communicate with your partner about your ideas and desires.
Communication is the most essential part of any relationship. Any issue involving intimacy should be discussed openly to maximize closeness and understanding with your partner. Your interests and desires in the bedroom are no exception. Don’t be afraid to express what turns you on. Don’t hesitate to express your hesitancy with any subject, either. It can be a little intimidating talking to your partner about it for the first time. Try making it part of your “pillow talk”, and start with a statement like “I think it would be really sexy if…”
Share the toy shopping process with your partner.
This is both a communicative step with your partner and a FUN thing to do to! Your new toy needs to be something that you BOTH will like. This is also a great low-pressure way to break into the subject. Don’t be afraid to have fun with the process. If this is your first time using sex toys together, it’s probably a good idea to start small and work your way into it. Luckily, we have an AWESOME website you can look at together to see a full selection of toys and vibrators that you can both enjoy! You can also contact me privately and shop directly from my full inventory. What’s my most popular couples toy? That would be Jelly Tool Belt.
Start slow with a sensual massage.
A great way to introduce a little “buzz” into your night is to start with a slow and sensual massage. Start with your hands and slowly work the new toy into the mix. The pulsations will help soothe tired muscles and send you to a state of blissful relaxation. Once the vibrator becomes a regular part of your foreplay, try moving it … lower. You can really maximize your massage experience with some of our great massage products, too!
Take turns and share your toys.
When using a new toy together, take turns. Half of the fun is SHARING! Let each person experiment with different hot spots on the other’s body, and guide each other’s hands to the spots that feel best. And keep communicating and checking in with your partner. A simple “Is this good for you?” or “Do you like when I …” can go a long way toward making your experience truly mind-blowing!
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