Relationship Advice, Sex Tips and Techniques, Sex Toys 101

How to Introduce A Sex Toy Into Your Relationship

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Every relationship is different.  Some are more adventurous than others.  That’s okay.  Maybe you are interested in spicing things up a bit but you aren’t quite sure how to introduce a sex toy into your relationship.  It can be a scary idea, but if you go into it with the right mindset and focus on a strong relationship, you too can turn your bedroom into a playland!  Here are a few tips on how to get started:

Communicate with your partner about your ideas and desires.

Communication is the most essential part of any relationship.  Any issue involving intimacy should be discussed openly to maximize closeness and understanding with your partner.  Your interests and desires in the bedroom are no exception.  Don’t be afraid to express what turns you on.  Don’t hesitate to express your hesitancy with any subject, either.  It can be a little intimidating talking to your partner about it for the first time.  Try making it part of your “pillow talk”, and start with a statement like “I think it would be really sexy if…”

Share the toy shopping process with your partner.

This is both a communicative step with your partner and a FUN thing to do to!  Your new toy needs to be something that you BOTH will like.  This is also a great low-pressure way to break into the subject.  Don’t be afraid to have fun with the process.  If this is your first time using sex toys together, it’s probably a good idea to start small and work your way into it.  Luckily, we have an AWESOME website you can look at together to see a full selection of toys and vibrators that you can both enjoy!  You can also contact me privately and shop directly from my full inventory.  What’s my most popular couples toy?  That would be Jelly Tool Belt.

Start slow with a sensual massage.

A great way to introduce a little “buzz” into your night is to start with a slow and sensual massage. Start with your hands and slowly work the new toy into the mix.  The pulsations will help soothe tired muscles and send you to a state of blissful relaxation. Once the vibrator becomes a regular part of your foreplay, try moving it … lower.  You can really maximize your massage experience with some of our great massage products, too!

Take turns and share your toys.

When using a new toy together, take turns. Half of the fun is SHARING!  Let each person experiment with different hot spots on the other’s body, and guide each other’s hands to the spots that feel best. And keep communicating and checking in with your partner. A simple “Is this good for you?” or “Do you like when I …” can go a long way toward making your experience truly mind-blowing!

If you have any questions about a Pure Romance product, CALL ME!  Of course, the best way to see all of the great products we offer is by booking your very own Pure Romance Party!  Click here to contact me NOW!  Or maybe you’ve been to a party before and want to become your own boss?  Click here to JOIN MY TEAM!

 

Bath and Beauty, Lubricants and Creams, Uncategorized

Pure Romance Revive

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Pure Romance Consultants use and test all of the Bath and Beauty Products in daily life so we can give real information on how each performs and how best to use it.  One product has been making a splash among our local team lately, Pure Romance Revive.  This skin repair cream keeps your skin healthy and moisturized with essential oils and shea butter, and is specially formulated for cuticles and extremely dry, cracked skin.

On a recent vacation to Mexico, I had the chance to see just how much Revive could really do.  While 5 days of sun by the pool had me relaxed and rejuvenated, it had my hands and feet rough and dry from sand and surf.

I used Pure Romance Revive on my hands, feet, knees, and elbows… WOW!  It made a huge difference.  My hands and feet were soft and moisturized after taking a beating in sand and sun.  I was also amazed at how little of the cream I actually had to use to get the results I wanted and how it lasted throughout the day.  My husband even tried some on his hands (his cuticles get cracked easily) and now he is a converted Revive user.

And if you are like me, and pay close attention to what ingredients go into the products you use, rest easy knowing that Pure Romance Revive is made with natural ingredients such as shea butter, natural beeswax, coconut oil, mango butter, and avocado oil.  Soft on your body, easy on the environment.

YOU NEED TO TRY REVIVE!  I can help you do that.  I keep revive fully stocked and ready to go.  If you would like to give it a try, or need to reorder your supply, contact me here, or you can shop all of the awesome products that Pure Romance has to offer by clicking here.  THANK YOU for reading!

Relationship Advice, Sex Tips and Techniques, Sexual Health

Proof that Spooning Improves Relationships

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Never underestimate the power of touch! Cuddling, massages, hand-holding…we girls just can’t seem to get enough!  Guys too, although they may not be as quick to admit it.  But does loving physical contact after sex actually improve a relationship?  And can you actually prove this correlation?  Science says YES, and I say HOORAY, SCIENCE!

Some recent research at the University of Toronto Mississauga shows that a little post-nooky spooning can help improve your relationship.  The study, published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, shows that “kissing, caressing, and loving talk” after intercourse are all associated with greater sexual and relationship satisfaction.

Kat Van Kirk, Ph.D., a licensed marriage and sex therapist, says that the chemical oxytocin is likely the main driver behind this phenomenon.  Oxytocin is often referred to as the “love hormone”; it’s released as a result of pleasurable physical contact and has been shown to increase bonding. Staying physically close after sex can also act as a form of nonverbal communication. “It can help you relax, inhibit any sensations of pain—emotional or physical—and help reinforce to your partner that you are invested and committed to them,” says Van Kirk.

Other benefits include the simple fact that closeness can lead to more sex. “Cuddling can help keep you aroused for another roll in the hay,” says Van Kirk.

The study had some interesting results regarding who benefits the most from post-sex cuddling.  Couples with children has the biggest results, likely because of limited time for cuddling with each other during the day.  Women, in general, exhibited a larger benefit than me in the study, though men did report a noticeable improvement in their relationships and sex lives, too.

So you’re probably wondering.  What it the perfect amount of time to snuggle with your partner?   Aim for more than 15 minutes—that’s what the people in the study who said they were happiest with their relationships did.  Personally, I think that 15 minutes is simply not long enough, but hey, science, amiright?

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Pure Romance Opportunity Event

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If it sounds too good to be true, there has to be a catch, right?  Well, not always.  If you have heard some of the stories about what Pure Romance has done for many consultants, you might be skeptical too.  I was until I met a few of the wonderful Team Pink Cupcakes girls and the very talented Kalen Clark.  Hearing their stories let me know that I could reach the potential I knew I had and the lifestyle that I wanted.  That was one of the main ideas behind the Pure Romance Opportunity event this past weekend.
join pure romanceThis event was a big deal.  If you have ever considered joining Pure Romance, this was an opportunity to learn all of the details about how and why Pure Romance works directly from the CEO, Chris Cicchinelli, and some of the most successful consultants within the nation!  I can’t even tell you how excited the girls from my team were about this event!
Over 100 local consultants gathered at the Embassy Suites to learn from some of the corporate office’s top trainers, including the CEO himself.  Guests of consultants and any potential recruits were even given some one-on-one time with the CEO to voice any questions or concerns about taking on their very own business. To add the the excitement, new consultants were handed their starter kits on the spot… This is a company first!  Also, any girls that joined during the training received FREE registration for National Training taking place in Cincinnati this weekend!
pure romance lexington kentuckyFor the training, the crowd was divided into 2 groups: guests/consultants/adv consultants & then Sr. consultants and above. I was excited to hear from Executive Director Jessie Lee O’Sullivan & pick up some tips about upping my game for sponsoring. Her current override check was $16,000 FOR THE MONTH. That’s just free money she receives just for team building.  That’s just INSANE!  It’s great to hear stories about success within any company, but to actually meet the person and hear how she started at the bottom just like everyone else really motivates you to get on your horse and get moving!
The momentum within this company is BOOMING!  Did I mention that I was able to quit my job to work from home with Pure Romance?  Does that sound like something that would make you happy?  Live the life you want STARTING RIGHT NOW!  At Pure Romance, we believe every woman should have the opportunity to create the life of her dreams.  To earn the income she deserves.  Our team is an AMAZING group of women that wants you to succeed.  We will help educate and train you (along with professional training from the corporate office) to get you up and running.  No experience is required- just the desire to take control of your potential!Have questions?  I did.  Contact me NOW and let’s have a conversation over a cup of coffee.  I’m in the Lexington, Kentucky area and have an expanding network of awesome women throughout the Bluegrass region.  Or click this link to learn more about Pure Romance and how you can be your own boss!  Are you ready to JOIN PURE ROMANCE RIGHT NOW?  Click this link to become your own boss today!